{"id":33,"date":"2014-12-26T13:13:36","date_gmt":"2014-12-26T13:13:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.urmomentllc.com\/wp\/?p=33"},"modified":"2022-07-10T02:33:49","modified_gmt":"2022-07-10T02:33:49","slug":"say-what-you-really-mean","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/urmomentllc.com\/wp\/say-what-you-really-mean\/","title":{"rendered":"Say What You Really Mean"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Many times we don&#8217;t ask for what we really want &#8211; even if someone asks you the question. Personally, my mind keeps me from asking. I don&#8217;t want to seem greedy; seem selfish, or I&#8217;m just afraid of hearing &#8216;no&#8217;. We stop ourselves of living the life we want or getting the desires in life. There are enough barriers in life, I don&#8217;t need to add to them.<\/p>\n<p>My ask of you today is to ask for what you really want. Open up and say how you really feel. For some it is sharing with someone what you are going through. 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